Remembering Phylicia Barr: Winston-Salem Mourns the Loss of a Beloved Daughter, Friend, and Community Light
WINSTON-SALEM, NC — The city of Winston-Salem is mourning the heartbreaking loss of Phylicia Barr, a vibrant young woman whose life was tragically cut short in a devastating accident. Phylicia’s sudden passing has left a void in the lives of her family, friends, and all who had the privilege of knowing her.
According to those close to her, Phylicia died as a result of a tragic accident that occurred earlier this week. The details surrounding the incident are still being reviewed by authorities, but what remains painfully clear is that her death has left a community shaken and grieving.
Described by many as a beacon of light, Phylicia was known for her infectious smile, compassionate spirit, and uplifting energy. She had a rare ability to make people feel seen, heard, and loved—often going out of her way to offer encouragement or simply bring a little joy into someone’s day. Her passing is not just a personal loss to those who loved her, but a significant blow to the broader Winston-Salem community.
“She had a heart bigger than the world,” said longtime friend Tasha Greene. “No matter what she had going on in her own life, she was always the first to show up for someone else. You don’t meet people like that often.”
A proud North Carolina native, Phylicia grew up in Winston-Salem and attended local schools, where she quickly stood out for her kindness, leadership, and commitment to excellence. She was active in church youth groups, community service projects, and school organizations—earning respect from peers and adults alike. Those early values carried through into her adult life, where she became a cornerstone of support for her family and friends.
Phylicia was especially close with her siblings and parents, whom she often referred to as her “home team.” She played the role of the big sister not just in title, but in action—always protective, always supportive, always guiding with love.
“She was our glue,” said her sister Danielle Barr. “No matter what we were going through as a family, Phylicia found a way to keep us together. She didn’t just show up—she led with love.”
In her professional life, Phylicia was dedicated and passionate, known for her strong work ethic and joyful personality. Her colleagues described her as someone who brought warmth and motivation to the workplace, who wasn’t afraid to work hard and do the right thing, even when no one was watching.
Beyond work and family, she was an advocate for mental health, a mentor to local youth, and someone who always found time to serve others. Whether she was volunteering at a local shelter, participating in community clean-ups, or mentoring a struggling teen, Phylicia made sure her life meant something—and that her time was spent with purpose.
Now, as the community comes together in remembrance, loved ones are leaning on each other for strength and comfort. A memorial service is currently being planned, where friends and family will have the opportunity to gather, celebrate her life, and reflect on the immense impact she had in such a short time.
Social media has been flooded with tributes, photos, and heartfelt messages from those whose lives Phylicia touched. One message, written by a close family friend, reads:
“Heaven gained an angel who walked with grace and lived with heart. Phylicia, we love you. We miss you. Your legacy lives on in every life you lifted.”
In honor of her legacy, the Barr family is working to establish a community fund in Phylicia’s name, dedicated to supporting local youth initiatives and mental health outreach—two causes she was deeply passionate about.
As Winston-Salem grieves, it also remembers. It remembers the laughter, the generosity, the hope, and the powerful presence that was Phylicia Barr. Her light may no longer shine on this earth, but the warmth she left behind will continue to guide those who loved her.
Rest in peace, Phylicia. Your light will never be forgotten.